①be alone with one's own thoughts
                                                                      独自思考
②reflection n.                                                                沉思;反射;  映像;反映
reflect v.                                                                     反思;反映;反射
③seek (sought, sought)
vi.                                                                               试图;寻找;争取
vt.                                                                               寻求;寻找
seek to do sth                                                                寻求做某事
④escape vi.& vt.                                                          逃脱,躲避;逃跑;
避开,避免;被遗忘
n.                                                                                逃离,逃脱
escape into                                                                  逃进,躲进
escape from                                                                        逃离
⑤smooth out                                                              消除(问题),
                                                                                   克服(困难)
⑥be meant to do sth
                                                                                   注定要做某事,
                                                                                应做某事
⑦benefit n.                                                                       优势,益处,成效 
vt.                                                                               使受益
vi.                                                                               得益于
benefit from                                                                       从……中获益
⑧comfort vt.                                                              宽慰,抚慰
n.                                                                                舒服;安慰
comfort the heart                                                          安慰心灵
⑨advise the head                                                         出谋划策
⑩more satisfied humans                                             更满足的人
?failure n.                              失败;失败的人
                                                (或事);未  履行;故障
?take on                                 呈现,具有
?result from                           由……引起
?in full measure                     最大程度地,  最大限度地
?moment n.                            时光,时机;瞬间;某个时刻
moments of closeness                       亲密的时刻
?indeed adv.                          其实,实际上;  的确;真正地
?wellmeaning adj.                 出于好心的,  善意的
wellmeaning and wise friends
                                                好心而明  智的朋友
?recognize vt.                         承认,意识到;  认出,辨别出 
?onesided adj.                         片面的
?offer advice on sth
就某事提供建议
talk problems over with sb
和某人讨论问题
put our thoughts into words
                                                把我们的想法用语言表达出来
thorough adj.                              彻底的,全面的;仔细的
be known as                         被认为是;  号称;叫作
with the help of                            借助于
skill n.                                  技能,技巧;
death n.                               死,死亡;死亡状态
die vi.                                      死
point out                                     指出
company n.                          陪伴,作伴;公司 
crowd n.                               一伙人,一帮人;人群
vt.                                            挤满,使拥挤
vi.                                            聚焦;挤,涌
crowded adj.                            拥挤的 
enjoy the company of a crowd
                                                享受一群人  的陪伴
the same as                           和……一样
such as  诸如……